Many parents think that back problems are a reason not to carry their child. This is logical, because your body already feels vulnerable and you don't want to strain it. However, the opposite is often true: parents actually experience less back pain since they started carrying their child.
Carrying your baby activates your core and strengthens your back muscles. Your body is stimulated to move upright and actively. This improves your posture and strengthens your muscles in a natural way.

When carrying, you use muscle groups that are normally less intensively engaged. Think of your shoulders, upper back, lower back, and core muscles. At first, this may feel like muscle pain, similar to your first workout after a long break.
The good news? Your body adapts quickly. The more you carry, the stronger your muscles become and the lighter it feels. Your baby is growing, but your body is growing with them. Provided you carry ergonomically, you will be training your core and back muscles without even noticing.
Back and shoulder complaints are a common concern among parents who want to start carrying their baby (or have just started). Your body suddenly has a new task to perform, and that takes some getting used to. Fortunately, these complaints are usually easy to explain and often easy to alleviate.
In fact, in many cases, carrying your baby actually helps to reduce existing back problems.
In addition to muscle strength, your posture plays an important role. With a well-adjusted baby carrier, many parents automatically adopt an ergonomic posture. However, we often see that shoulders are unconsciously brought forward slightly.
This usually stems from a protective instinct: you want to keep your baby close, safe in that cozy cocoon. This is completely understandable, but this posture can cause extra tension in your neck, shoulders, and upper back.
With a few simple tips, you can make wearing them much more comfortable:
An open, relaxed posture helps prevent strain and trains your core and back muscles at the same time.
An ergonomic baby carrier not only supports your child, but also your body. ByKay baby carriers are designed to distribute weight evenly across your shoulders, back, and hips. That makes a world of difference.
Always take a moment to adjust your baby carrier to fit your body properly. Even a small adjustment can make it more comfortable and reduce tension.

Are your back or shoulder complaints persisting? Are they getting worse, or does the pain feel sharp or radiating? Then it is wise to seek help. A physical therapist or carrying consultant can check your posture and the adjustment of your baby carrier. Often, the solution lies in a small adjustment.
Back and shoulder discomfort when carrying your baby is usually temporary and easily explained. Your muscles need time to adjust, and with conscious posture, carrying becomes increasingly comfortable. By building up slowly and choosing an ergonomic baby carrier, not only will your baby grow, but so will your carrying capacity.
And that makes carrying with ByKay relaxed, close, and enjoyable. ❤️️
Are you still unsure which baby carrier best suits you, your body, and your child? Then our sustainable carrier subscription is a great, accessible way to discover what works for you. This allows you to experience how carrying feels for your back and shoulders, without having to make a large investment right away.
The subscription grows with you: start with a baby sling in the newborn phase, switch to a Tiny Click, and later switch to a Click Classic or Click Deluxe. This way, you always carry ergonomically, comfortably, and tailored to your body and your phase.